Dear Socially Progressive Parents who allow their son's hair to grow long,
Please don't cut your son bangs. OR, if you do, please accept that, in many situations, your little boy will be mistaken for a little girl. I don't regret making the mistake, but I hope I didn't cause him humiliation.
Sincerely,
Emily
Showing posts with label gender. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gender. Show all posts
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Sunday, September 13, 2009
I'm fascinated: Genderless parenting
I once heard a story on This American Life ( I think the episode was Somewhere Out There) about two transgendered children, two little boys who would like to be recognized as little girls. The thing which struck me most was that they said they didn't think of themselves as boys or as girls, but just as people.
If this is so, then why not accept your gender, but not the socially constructed implications? Sure, I'm male, but I like to wear dresses and play with dolls and have long hair.
A Swedish couple have recieved a lot of attention from their decision to keep their child's gender a secret. I'm interested to see how the child ends up, but unfortunately, the couple is my age. This will not assist me in time to make parenting decisions.
....because if I'm not married by 30, I'm probably going to look into adopting, and 6 years isn't enough time for a kid to grow up.
The article: http://www.thelocal.se/20232/20090623/
EDIT: I might as well take over Ally's blog theme.
John Green's video tonight concerned gender identity:
If this is so, then why not accept your gender, but not the socially constructed implications? Sure, I'm male, but I like to wear dresses and play with dolls and have long hair.
A Swedish couple have recieved a lot of attention from their decision to keep their child's gender a secret. I'm interested to see how the child ends up, but unfortunately, the couple is my age. This will not assist me in time to make parenting decisions.
....because if I'm not married by 30, I'm probably going to look into adopting, and 6 years isn't enough time for a kid to grow up.
The article: http://www.thelocal.se/20232/20090623/
EDIT: I might as well take over Ally's blog theme.
John Green's video tonight concerned gender identity:
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